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That was the hard thing about grief, and the grieving. They spoke another language, and the words we knew always fell short of what we wanted them to ...more

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Isn't it weird," I said, "the way you remember things, when someone's gone?"What do you mean?"I ate another piece of waffle. "When my dad first died, ...more

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Grief can be a burden, but also an anchor. You get used to the weight, how it holds you in place.